Monday, May 9, 2011

Reading other blogs

Sorry I'm being a blog hog. I go forever and dont blog and now I blog twice in one day..

I like to read blogs i dont always reply because my phone has issues. But when I read blogs it makes me see that I'm not the only one who has these thoughts. I was reading a blog the other day and the writer wrote that she wished her husband would come in and tell her to get over his knee now she was getting a spanking.  Wow I wish that too.  SOmetimes I wish my hubby spanked me more when I was needed it instead of letting things go. Inconsistancy KILLSS MEE!!!  I try really hard to not worry about if or when he's going to spank. I try not to get upset when he doesnt.

The funny thing is when I think a spanking is coming i really want to talk him out of it and dont want it.  THen when i dont get this same spanking I just wanted to talk him out of  its annoying.. WOW that sounds just as crazy written down lol..  I know its only been 7 months. but grrrr.. You know if he was very consistant and spanking me every time I turned around I'm sure I'd be complaining about that lol.. 

WOMAN!!! We are NEVER happy  rofl

They are Vanilla Or Are they?

"O I'm in soo much trouble when I get home. Did you see the look my husband gave me?"

This is what my sons coaches wife said to me Saturday.

I've never shared my lifestyle with her nor have I EVER shown her any signs that I might or could be in dd. We were setting at the game Saturday and she was being annoying to her husband and 3x she said this to me.. I quickly texted a dd friend.. IS she vanilla or not??   If she said it one more time I was gonna make a joke about her getting spanked to see the look on her face.. 

I shared this on another dd board and someone suggested maybe she was trying to feel me out?  Maybe but Idk Y this is the first time I have spent more than 5 min with her since i have been in dd so Ik i have given her NO indications..   Someone suggested maybe its wishful thinking that he would do something about her behaviour.  They said if she was in a dd relationship she wouldnt blurt things out like that because she would be embarressed.. But who knows shes very outspoken. 

Dont worry i will be feeling her out. Its a long summer and bleachers are not good on a sore bum so I can tell and i will play close attention..

So does anyone have any thoughts. DO you think they are DD? Hmmm

Friday, May 6, 2011

Where have I been?

Where have I been?  Well lets see.. I have been over the chair, over the couch, over the bed, I guess the only place I wasn't is Over his knee. I suppose that's to come!!! So obviously there have been spankings.

Well but we have also spent time learning some things.. I really have learned alot.. I had problems with topping from the bottom i suppose. It wasn't on purpose but I felt that he let to much stuff go. Then once I realized that everything isn't a spankable offense and I needed to trust him.. Once I realized it isn't my way but his and trust him then its going alot smoother. I think now we have finally hit a spot where we have had a great learning curve.. However I know that there are lot more learning curves to go.. This one learning curve just gave us a few more feet..

So anyway that's where we are in this thing we do..

        There is still peace in the Tyler and  Daisy household... We just keep on cherishing and learning each other!!

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Our 15th Wedding Anniversary

So 15yrs ago today a little 17yr old girl walked down the aisle and said her I do's with no idea where that was gonna take her..

We quickly jumped into our own home and a baby all with in 6months!!! 2yrs later we packed up and moved 800 miles away from what we will always call home. a yr later we welcomed another bouncy baby boy and we kept on trucking 4yrs after that our princess came along.. We then made another move from the City to the country that was fun.. Then after 13yrs when the kids were getting older and the world seemed to stop spinning we realized we didnt know eachother and I wasnt certain that I loved this man..  For 2yrs he fought for me to stay, i fought for him to stay, then I gave up and he never did... I then was running a muck and Life slapped me in the face and I new I needed spanked... So thus we started TTWD

I struggled with knowing for years if I truly loved Tyler or not. I had the excuse I was so young how did I know what love was..  Well let me tell you after we got things right and I found my place I do love him. I always have loved him and always will...

Not many young couples can say we have never had to live with anyone, sure we have had help with money from time to time but we dont owe anyone any money its all paid off.. (Well when i say that I dont mean the doctors lol.. O we still owe them and I'm sure always will rofl!!!) We have struggled and had good times.. I wouldn't  change a thing well maybe a few and I would start with myself..  I'm sure if we started over Tyler would be putting me OTK on our honeymoon and let me know who rules the roost!!! "Who DA BOSS!!" ya know all that!!

Anyway you say "Would I do it all over again?"  You bet your bottom I would!! Hehe    I could never ever find a man so inlove with his wife and kids like I have found.. We are all he has and wants and thats the way I want it..

But instead of thinking of today as our 15th wedding anniversary I would like to think of today as our 6months wedding anniversary  doing it right ....  So on this wedding night I'm sure that Tyler will be putting me OTK and letting me know "WHO'S DA BOSS"!!!

Heres to 15 more plus 15 plus 15 more and well you get it!!!!

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

My Split personality defeated

Ok I'm not sure who was in my body or at my house last week but I'm almost positive it wasn't me!!! I'm convinced I have a split personality OO wait I do its my Evil twin.!!!

So last week was probably our worse week ever.. It started probably Sunday and it really didn't stop till Thursday... Well i new going into last week i needed a reminder because I could feel me falling. I know hubby could too and It was Spring Break.. But I don't have to get my butt beat twice to know I don't top from the bottom or tell my hubby when to spank me..

Well somewhere between stop and go and HOLY CRAP all hell broke loose!!!

So the younger 2 kids are gone and our oldest is out playing basketball. We rolled out of bed around 10 and from the moment I got up I was mad, hurt and upset about the argument the night before...

Now normally when I'm to be spanked i'm very compliant as I'm usually naturally submissive (Hubby says so too).. Not today.

I went into talk to Tyler about some issues the same issues we were talking about the night before.. Yes you guessed it men he was done talking but woman I know you know I wasn't !!!

So i'm talking and he gets annoyed and I keep talking then he gets even more annoyed and you guessed by the time i was done talking we were both mad. I marched right thrue the warnings and the looks and the louder warnings and the meaner looks.. I marched right into the troops. When i was done talking I sat my smart mouth down in the chair after throwing out a word (a word that I honestly cannot remember).. I sat my happy but down at the computer and had the final word or did I??

Next thing I know here comes Tyler grabbing my arm yanking me out of the chair.

Tyler  "Come On now I'm done"

Me "No we cant your mad"

At this point hes dragging me up the stairs

Me "ok ok were both mad just stop."

Tyler wasn't saying a word he puts me in front of the bed where I normally take down my own pants and panties.. I wasn't today and I think he new that because before I could decide If i wanted to take them down myself or not they came down in a hurry. With a light tap I was bent over.

Tyler "Is this what you wanted?" As he lay into me with the backscratcher in which I couldn't feel a thing.

I turned and looked at him just moving my body not standing up. "No I'm mad at you"

Tyler "get in position" As he pulls me back and continues to smack

Me "No i'm hurt you hurt me and your not listening"

Tyler "I was listening you were not and you still aren't" As he picks up the pace.

Finally i realize my defeat and start laying there and realizing "O crap this hurts"

We didn't have much time so when he saw the shift in my body that i at least started relaxing he was done.

He walked in the bathroom and I stood up and walked downstairs.. Normally i lay there but I think I was embarrassed, Ashamed, still some hurt and mad.  He then comes down telling me everything I needed to do and I listened.

It took a couple days for my evil twin to pack up and move on.. My raging hormones kicked in somewhere and they were off like a vengeance.. But all is well for now until the next time!!!

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Texting and Driving and Topping from the Bottom

Tyler made a rule 3 months ago no texting and driving and I'm to confess if I do.. Well I have only had to tell on myself 2x.. The first time I told on myself wasn't so bad but the second time I new I was in for it..

Well I don't normally get long spankings but I new this one had to be firm enough to hold my attention for a while other wise I would continue to text and drive and continue to have to tell on myself grrr.. Well I don't want to go into details but accidently i went to lengths to top from the bottom. I have worked very hard to NOT top from the bottom.. I say accident because I really didn't mean it and i didn't realize I was going to lengths until the lesson was learned!!!

Well let me just tell you when Tyler found out I was trying to top from the bottom it was not pretty.  Lets just say that I got a BIG Lesson with the belt that I'm to NEVER try topping from the bottom accident or NOT!!!  I also got a BIG lesson on NO texting and driving!!!  So a LONG lengthy lesson with the belt is still in my head even after 2 weeks!!! YIKES!!!

Lesson Learned and NO i have NOT text and drove!!! :)

What writing those lines did for me

Sorry its been crazy around here. I been sick for 2 months and I cant shake it!!!  So before I post any disciplines I want to let you guys know how writing the lines went.

Well so Tyler tells me I have 2 days to write the lines.. Well to me that means write them any time  here and there as long as their done on time!!!  WRONG!!! That meant pick a time no tv, no internet, no texting and sit down and write 250 lines!!! 

Ok so i did this. I thought it was gonna be annoying and just irritate me but it wasn't.  As i was writing the lines i sort of wanted to cry because the lesson was getting to me. Really when i was done it worked just as good as most spankings... I felt the same relief and stayed out of trouble.. It was also very humbling that I did what he told me to do without spanking me and I was happy to tell him when they were done :)

I don't recommend writing lines often but occasionally i think it works fine.

now I've had to write lines again but that was with a spanking too.. I will blog about that soon..

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

What? What? Are you serious???

What did you say? I have to what?  Write what?? Are you serious?  Yup 250 of them!!! by 3pm Wednesday

This is was the conversation we had as we laid in bed last night. I was telling him how i was sorry i hadn't been acting right the last couple of weeks. I was hoping we could take care of things Monday and he was gonna be gone.

He said "that's fine you can write 250 sentences."

"I can write what??"

"You heard me" as he chuckled

"Are you serious?"

"Yup" out comes another chuckle. "No typing them on the computer or copy pasting either!!!"

 We then both laughed then.. O what a funny man!!

Maybe he was right I was taking advantage of his kindness because he knows how sick I've been and He has chosen not to spank me but the last couple weeks have been horrible.!!!

I had been arguing and arguing over everything. We had a blizzard and I was stranded with my friend, her 3 kids my 3 kids, Tyler and the dog!!! Plus I been battling a Sinus infection and cold that is kicking my butt!!!

I will just give you an example of one of my ridiculous arguments.

 I asked Tyler "Where ya going?"  .

"Going out to shovel the snow"  He replied

"I Already did." I declared

"I just looked out the window, I cant get straight in the drive."

"Yes you can I just spent 20 min out there and my van is just crooked." I Huffed

"Come here let me show you." He said annoyed

We walked up the stairs and into my room.. Ladies its  never smart to put yourself in a room alone with your hubby.,and  continue arguing after you have been arguing for a week and you been sick and he hasn't wanted to spank you..

I'm looking out the window still protesting that the snow is fine he can get in and my van is crooked. I hear the door shut and him quickly come over. I new i was in for it. He grabs my arm giving me warning swats over my pants ..

I reprieved. "OK OK fine it needs shoveled more!!!''

You ask why was I arguing over snow?? I don't know I guess I was annoyed that I was trying to do something nice and that was the second time it didn't work out. The first time was over tarter sauce!!! "Don't ask!!!

Well I'm feeling better but not completely!!! I've never been sick this long. He still feels I'm to sick to spank sooo That's where the sentences come in!!!

I'm on sentence #8!!! and I'm not happy!!!  JUST SPANK ME ALREADY!!!

Bottom line is I will write these sentences because I will submit ... besides I'm pretty sure If I don't write these sentences I will be After my bottom is sore.. So then I'd have a sore bottom and a sore hand!!!    I wonder if its just something to see if I will submit and respect whatever he says?

Well whatever it is he's good in his HOH roll and I wont be topping from the bottom so I must be off to write these  sentences

Wednesday, January 26, 2011


My fellow spanko blogger friend Stormy got me thinking.  I know it doesn't happen often lol

Anyway I never thought I really had walls but I did. I would say it was over 20ft tall. This is how it happened

Tyler actually had the walls when we first got married. I tried so hard to break it down. Here i was 18 married, had a baby I had everything I wanted but laying next to me was a brick wall and there was my love on the other side. I tried a chisel I tried a hammer. One day i thought about trying a bulldozer but I decided that was to much work so I just thought "Well he has walls I will put one up to." So i did as I'm building my wall quickly because I have to catch up with him he then started chiseling his away slowly.. Over the years he finally took his down but by that time mine was 20ft tall. He would try hammering it down and I would be like Whatever and put a few more bricks on. He had hurt me pushed me down enough..I was a stubborn, hot headed independent girl by this time he wasn't taking my wall down. Well over time I couldn't live on this side of my wall anymore and I decided that it was time for that bulldozer so I tore my wall down. Guess what His was back up but not that tall luckily and with the help of "tweed" its almost gone. I like this side of my wall. Its not so bad after all.

So my fellow spanko ladies and  gents tear down your walls or your spouses walls. Get that bulldozer out and say lets goo!! Its time to prance on this side of our walls put the walls to the world not between your spouse and enjoy life!!!


Friday, January 21, 2011

Wow!!! Was NOT ExpectingThis

"Daisy I need to talk to you a min. NOW!!" Tyler yelled down from our bedroom

Those words shuddered thrue me as I am on the phone with a friend. i quickly said goodbye and slowly walked upstairs.. I new i had done something but couldnt figure out what.  Tyler had just gotten home from school and I was being my natural Angel self lol!!! getting everyone dinner.. He had never called me up to the room. Normally discipline is saved more maintenance days.  HMMM  in the short 4 months i guess he's got this.

So i enter the bedroom as he closes and locks the door behind me. OO there it is the dreaded quiet implement the devil itself  "The BLIND ROD"  my stomache sank lower to the ground as i take a big gulp. "Daisy sit down" Tyler said as he points to the bed. As I sit down on the bed he picks up the blind rod. He asked me "How long is D supposed to go to the library to play on the computer for?" I quietly replied gulping "3 hrs." 

You have to understand what is going thrue my head. I've never been in a position where I wanted to beg him not to spank me. usually every thing is brought up in the open in maintenance and i really dont have a choice as I'm bare bottomed already.

Ok so back to the lecture "So Daisy what made you think it was ok for him to go back to the library? I made a rule of 3 hrs only." Tyler looks at me unpleased.   I said "Well I um thought he had a 5 hr break and I umm thought since he had a 5 hr break that it would be ok." 

" I made a rule and the rule was 3 hrs on the computer a day!!! NOT take a 5hr break. Is that understood?"

"Yes" OO My mind was going 90 miles an hour is he gonna spank me right here and not wait?

"Are you sure you understand 3 hours a day only??"

"Yes Sir"

"OK then this is your warning the next time we will not have this conversation. Instead I will be having a butt mind conversation. UNDERSTOOD!!!??"

""Yes Sir" 

"Ok were done here."

Phew, OK so when i let D go to the library, I sorta wondered if I would get a spanking for it. but I was more thinking of my SANITY!!!. the kids have been out of school for snow and well the FIGHTING!!!.. So had Tyler Spanked me yes It would have been warranted. but this is a new rule. Soo I now know 3hrs!!!

So anyway were just putting along well with TTWD!!! 

I will NOT be reading or giving Tyler anymore ideas THANK YOU !!!

Sunday, January 16, 2011

Alot of Learning going on here

Hey guys its been a bit since I posted... Yes theres been spankings to post about. but a couple of my friends and I are starting an online paid fictional story website. The free time i get on the computer I use it writing my stories.  Look for a blog on the website soon..

Anyway this ttwd has done alot of good for our lives.  I used to hate cooking and it never was time consuming. It was hamburger helper, Frozen Lasagna etc.  Now I have been making recipes and coming up with yummy things. I think its because I realize Tyler and my kids deserve more of my effort than making the same thing all the time.  Its funny because my kids like the stuff that takes longer to make and not so kid friendly food better than they like the kid friendly stuff.  Spaghetti, Pizza etc probably cus they have eaten more than there share of it..

I dont know if you remember my post where I wanted Tyler to hold me accountable for things that he needs to work on to. Well i presented it to him and he didnt really like the idea. Well apparently he got tired of the kids being late to school.  When i woke up late thursday morning VERY late he informed me we would be dealing with it later.. During the spanking he told me that We are NO LONGER going to be late!! I needed to get the kids to school on time and everytime I'm late to something I WILL be spanked well its been 2days lol but I havent been late.

I think I'm taking more pride in myself as well. I never really wore makeup or dressed nice just sweats and stuff. Well i been putting on makeup more. I want to start wearing skirts more. I want Tyler to be proud of being with me.  The thing I love to is the honesty that comes out of his mouth. When i ask the questions Am I  putting on weight? I get the TRUTH lol!!! Before it was always "thats a trick question."  When I ask him about my hair and if it bothers him that I just brush and go. I again get the truth!!!.. so here we are I been fixing my hair, putting on makeup, cooking dinner and working on not being late.

Tyler and I also had a conversation the other night. You see I have been on all kinds of boards since starting cdd I wanna learn about this lifestyle ya know!!! and well i'm a woman I gotta have someone to talk to.. Anyway I finally got Tyler on a board. Well I have shared with him a few times about the amount of spankings some woman get. The number of swats and how long they get spanked for. Warm ups etc. Well I really wanted him on groups to figure things out.  Well he says to me the other night " I wonder if I spank you long enough. These other men spank their wives to tears etc. What do you think?" I said "Well I think that some woman are mad and angry so they have to spank the anger out of them and get them back into submissive mode. I've yet to be mad and angry and I"m always submissive when it comes to getting a spanking. Also the one time that i was very stress and unsubmissive you did get me to that release even if i didnt cry."  I continued by telling him that I'm sure there will be a day that I'm not as submissive and dont deserve that i need a spanking and maybe he will have to get me to that point.  I ended it with praying about it and talking to other men. Really Its hard to tell your spanker that you need more spankings lol

I told him he got me to a crying point the other day and it wasnt the amount of spankings it was the lecture. "I"m very dissapointed that you were texting and driving. I have made sure I stopped texting and driving so that I can hold you accountable." he says to me as he's laying swats of that blind rod on my bottom.  You see I think this is the first time I've disapointed him. The other things I've gotten spanked for is mostly forgetting to do things or some pet peeve of his. So the tears were of remorse about the texting. Should i be remorseful that I didnt make that phone call he probably could've made but hates the phone. Or should I be remorseful because I left a cabinet drawer open?? I'm truly asking I dont know..

Well Anyway It seems I maybe in for alot longer harder spankings grrr lol no really i'm ok with it. If were gonna do it I want it to be right. I also know that I trust Tyler and he will do for us what is right..I know that he just wants us to grow together in God and with eachother so whatever he decides I know its for the best.

Hes so  great because he comes up with things on his own and they are so cute.. The other day was maintenance. The kids werent home so he could use his hand instead of the quieter implements like the LJ and Blind ROD!!! . Well maintenance is pretty relaxed if I have been a good girl :)  Well on friday I'm stepping into the shower and he's stepping out. He starts swatting my bottom on the left side. I get 10 swats for maintenance when I've been good. He's laying down the swats and they are getting harder and well my right side is getting lonely.  I normally dont count the swats well I was today.. IN the middle of it I said "Hey my right side is getting lonely." He just keeps smacking away on the left side UGH!!! Well we get to 10 he continues I say "Hey thats 10" Lol He stops at 15. He said "Thats for saying the right side was lonely!!!" and laughs. I so wanted to say "Yes and it still is." But i figured I would end up with 15 more on the left side so it would be pretty pointless.  He always wants to leave it that I KNOW he's in control.

So mostly that sums it up. I'm still here. I'm still reading and I'm very actively doing ttwd and Loving it or well loving Tyler anyway lol!!!  If i could post from my phone I would post more but for some reason it wont let me grrr!!! so for now i will post when I can and I will let everyone know when the site is up and running.

Hope All my spanko guys and gals are doing well!!!

Monday, January 3, 2011

Putting Humpty Dumpty back together again

 First I hope everyone had a wonderful New Year and more to come!!

My submission comes more naturally than I thought. I usually don't talk disrespectful (ok occasionally I interrupt and butt in when he's talking to the kids but if asked to do something or he is lecturing I listen.)  Now I keep a pretty descent house (As descent as one can be with 3 lazy kiddos!!) if it gets a clutter my mind gets a clutter when my mind gets a clutter well my mouth gets a clutter and I crumble.  Its like humpty dumpty slowly falling off the brick wall into a million pieces.. Fortunately for me I have Tyler to put the pieces back together again.

So somewhere between Christmas and New Years my upstairs became a mess.  Ok well the logical thing would be to clean it right? Right.. Ok that sounds good but here comes the Falling off a brick wall part. When I look around I don't know where  to start.  so I start in one room and think Ok theres clutter so lets make more and declutter the closets and the bookshelves.. But wait theres another room thats a clutter lets go see how much more we can clutter that!!! OOO heres where humpty starts to fall. I had 2 cluttered rooms that i didnt know what to do with so I decide to rearrange the rooms, declutter the closets and OOO MY what have we done!!!

This is a good time to set on the floor in my room for 2 hours and to see what my online spanko friends are up to  and read some spanko stories on Lulu and well its time for bed with nothing done. Well things keep piling and   Tyler sees I'm falling slowly  and he tries to stay clear. He decides  come in and help pull Humpty dumpty  back up  . Really I dont need any suggestions I got this!!! He starts to tell me how I should do one room and get it done and move to the next. Of course I dont let him finish I butt in with  my rebuttle it is " Well the kids room is a disaster and it has to be cleaned I cant have it not clean." Tyler  Says "Ok  well I want OUR room clean TONIGHT since you dont want to listen figure it out!!!". I try to reply with But " I do want to listen I'm sorry your right." Well the warning face comes up and he walks out of the room.

SO i continue to try sorting thrue this disaster. Christmas just has me all out of wack then this upstairs well Tyler knows I'm over do for a spanking I know I'm over do for a spanking but kids have been home from school and the over do spanking needs to be good so there just hasnt been time. Well anyway back to humpty and the great wall. So I start working on our room then decide its back to the kids room and figuring out this disaster. Then the kids start driving me crazy and I start to yell at them. Tyler heaves up some warning signals that I put in my head and shove them somewhere between " What did he say and O this mess is driving me crazy." So anyway.  The room doesn't get done when Tyler says and everything is a big mess. He tells me the next day it didn't get done but i also threw that to the side.

Well I was trying to talk to Tyler for 2 days about something and i kept getting "I'm not in the mood." So when i was texting him and he told me he wasn't in the mood to talk about it i said "fine I'll leave you alone." Apparently he got another text from me that came in after i said I'd leave him alone but it was out of order so i got "I thought you were leaving me alone about this?" I was like "What I am." O he was soo adamant  that I leave him alone and I did.

Tyler likes me to tell him what I'm doing after work etc. Well today I decided that he wanted me to leave him alone fine. we normally text while i'm at work but i didnt text him all day and i didnt tell him where i was going. I dont know if I was bratting some or just frustration had caught over I had fallen apart and He wasn't putting me back together on my time.  SO anyway I decided i was going to go shopping and i didn't care if i told him what i was doing or not. I also on my little outing bought the kids games for the Wii and xbox. He new i was buying them but he also thought I would by cheaper ones I suppose I don't know. My brain was gone humpty had fallen into a million pieces

So i get home things are settled we have a discussion Tyler says "thanks for telling me where you were going". "You think its ok to just do what you want? It was a short discussion I listened. I was just glad that he was in a better mood. All is going well until he saw the price of the games!!!

So anyway to wrap up little humpty.  We are laying in bed and Tyler says you know you have 10 swats coming for everything you've done right? I said "Do you remember everything I did?" "NO, but you will help me" He says sorta chuckling. "I dont remember a darn thing I'm an angel" We laughed and he ends it with "Well theres 10 more for not complying."  I suppose whats 10 more when you got a million coming right?

So finally New Years Eve Tyler put Humpty back together again. HE brought home all the pieces and put them in tact for the New Year so my mind isn't broken and I know exactly what I'm to do now. I told him I was sorry and I even asked for a few more swats in the end. I really dont know what was going on with me those last few days. I think i was falling off the wall for a while now. But on a good note  The rooms are clean the kids are happy Tyler is happy and I'm happy.  THe problem is my bottom isnt happy but I guess we cant all be happy now can we!!! lol... A friends Fiance  reminded me that whatever your doing on New Years Eve is what you will be doing all year!! So i guess I will be wearing a sore bottom for the year to come!!!

I suppose i should've asked for a cushioned toilet seat for Christmas.. ITs not very comfy sitting on a hard seat with a sore Toosh!!!

Happy New year!!!