Monday, September 16, 2013

What In The World? Sub Drop? Pms? WHAT??

I shared about my spanking on Friday.. Well Saturday had me crazy

Saturday morning we woke up and were laying there talking. I had my back to him and he started spooning me. I was ordered to lock the door then take of my sweats. So we reconnected then got up  and headed to our daughters soccer game. I felt great we were running late and forgot some things at home but when we would normally be frustrated and griping at each other we weren't we were laughing.  After the game we were laughing and everything was fine. Tyler dropped me at home and went to Wal-Mart. I started cleaning my room and then it hit me!!      
What hit me? I don't know a mac truck, a black cloud no clue!!. Then I realized Aunt Flo was visiting so I thought maybe I was having weird PMS symptoms or something.
                            
                 
I just felt lonely and empty. I just wanted to cry it was getting worse and worse.  Tyler came home I told him how I felt and he gave me a hug told me maybe I was hungry.  I left the house to go get some stuff done. I had my 17yr old with me. We did some errands then got lunch. I made a big sigh and he asked what was wrong. I told him how I was feeling and I just wanted to cry. He said everyone feels that way sometimes.

Anyway I got back home Tyler was sleeping and I went up to finish my room. I started praying and crying and listening to Plums "I need you now"


Well I just couldn't shake it. I left to go do something else then text a friend and asked her what she thought I could take. She mentioned maybe I had PMDD. I went in and talked to a pharmacist and he told me to try Midol but it might not help the mood. He asked if I was feeling depressed or had anxiety. No I felt neither. I told him maybe I should just go get a shot of vodka even though I don't drink.  We both laughed and he said "Well it will at least put you to sleep."

I left there and was texting a friend and she had called her earlier because she knew I was having a rough day and I disappeared when I was praying and crying. She mentioned that maybe I was having a sub drop.  A WHAT!!! A SUB DROP!!
                                             
                                            

"Isn't that something that happens during?" I asked her

"Well I've heard it can occur a few hours or day later."

"Well if that's the case I don't like this."

We both laughed and really never came to a conclusion.

So here is a question for my wise ole blogger friends

Do you think its possible it was a sub drop? Or was it merely that aunt Flo is getting worse as I'm older?

If it was a sub drop how do I prevent it in the future?

My spanking on Friday was probably the most dramatic spanking I had in a long time if ever.  It was pretty rough, It was the first time that I really didn't hear his lecture and it left me with a ton of emotions.  I never felt so good after a spanking and so meek. I felt refreshed and fulfilled. Well after I got over being angry but the anger wasn't long.

Did we reach a different peak in a spanking that I never experienced before?

I did take the Midol and after that I felt very tired. My emotions felt better but I just felt whipped out. It felt like the day was a blur and I felt kind of loopy honestly. I thought it was the Midol that did it but on Sunday I took it and it didn't do that to me. Sunday I felt ok I just took the Midol incase my emotions were from Aunt Flo.

Maybe the spanking did totally wipe me out.  I will tell you this if it was a sub drop  I really have to figure out how to not let that happen again or a better way to deal with it.







Just FYI for those who were possibly grossed out at the fact that we had sex and Aunt Flo is here. Well she wasn't here until after we had sex. He broke the dam so to speak!! lol
                                

22 comments:

  1. Daisy, right now I'm laughing. Reread your last paragraph and remember who your audience is. Kinksters! I'm not saying we all do the deed while aunt flo is here, but I think I'm safe to say that not one of us would be like "omg, she had sex while bleeding?". i don't know about other females, but that is when I'm most horniest, and it helps the cramps. haha

    i'm not sure what you had is sub drop. you weren't craving Tyler for reassurance, etc, and that is usually what sub drop is about. At least from what I've read.

    I'm thinking its a combo of the intense session and the hormones. I hope you are feeling better. ((hugs))

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    1. Lol I added the last paragraph because I do have a few blog friends that think its gross lol..I don't care personally lol...I'm better today just tired ...thank you

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  2. Oh Daisy, I hope you get feeling better soon!

    And nobody's judging even if the dam was already burst beforehand. That's what towels are for ;-)

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    1. I'm better today was just tired all day...

      lol true about the towels

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  3. Hi Daisy,

    I agree with HS, I think it was a combination of the intense session and hormones.

    It sounds as though the spanking reached a new level and was possibly a turning point for you guys? It left you with a ton of emotions and feeling refreshed at the same time. It's possibly a combination of gradually coming back down to earth again and hormones. Is that sub drop? I don't know.

    I hope you are feeling better.

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. I think it was both and it did go to a new level...I don't really know what a sub drop is...

      thanks for the hugs

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  4. oh this made me chuckle...in a good way..not at you.

    I find that sub-drop can hit sometimes days later, when i least expect it, i think for me its because initially after any 'play' im on a high, and eventually there is a come down from that high.

    But other times it doesnt happen at all, i think what i hate is that its unpredictable.

    hope your feeling all good about it now.

    x

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    1. Omg I didn't like it at alll!!! Lol. I am feeling more refresh today just super tired

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  5. Daisy,

    I do not get sub drop. I find I a feel terrific after hard play, I am pumped up in a good way.

    But, you may have a combo of everything hitting at once, intense spanking, Flo, etc.

    Sorry I am not much help.

    Hope you feel better.

    Hug,
    Joey

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    1. Thanks Joey I felt pumped the rest of the night and next morning...doin better now

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  6. Well I don't know about Sub drop either but I have hit subspace during a spanking once, and then another time after *wink* and I didn't notice anything unusal...but we are all different right.

    My period has been wonky as of late too. It was last year at this time. I am wondering if the summer and the start of school coupled with horror moans and (crap AGE) aren't making life more, um, interesting.

    OH BTW I hate when they 'break' the dam! DAMN!!!

    hugs
    willie

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    1. You should email me and explain sub space...your probably right about flo and school and age...my hormones are def crazy

      he broke the dam last time too lol
      thanks for the hugs

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    2. I had a post about it, but do you think for the life of me I can find it?

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  7. It was probably a little of everything (?)

    Glad you're feeling better.

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  8. I agree with the others in thinking that it was probably a combination of things. It sounds like it was pretty intense and then with the shift in hormones...ugh. Glad you're feeling better now though!

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    1. Thanks Grace it was intense and a rough weekend

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  9. Shoot Daisy, I'm not sure either but I'll agree with many others. I think it was probably a combination of all sorts of things combined with the stress and then those wacky hormones which seem to hit us especially hard in this fine decade of life. :)

    I hope this week has been much, much better!

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    1. Thanks Susie my week did get better and things are great. thanks for stopping by :)

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  10. Hey, Daisy! Long time no talk! I think that it was a combo of things. I think that you had endorphin's flying high and that with a surge of hormones the endorphin's dropped at the same time. Plus Tyler wasn't with you anymore & you were doing normal things. I think that it was a timing thing. I concur hormones & aunt flo do get harder & harder the older we get. I have a feeling that although I'm only 34 that I am in pre-menopause stage already. I'm glad you're feeling better!

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    1. Hey Corrine good to see you..hope your doin good. glad you stopped by..ugh I hate aging

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  11. Hi Daisy,
    Great post. I feel for you. I recently wrote a post about my own experiences with sub drop. After the last couple times I played, I would get so sad and would cry hysterically and I'm not normally a crier. I think that this is one of the few times I allow myself to be vulnerable and my psyche finally sees an outlet and lets it all out! Last time it was so bad that I even started crying during sex! I'm a little nervous for the next time because I do not like feeling that way! I too am trying to figure how to prevent this and am curious if others have any advice. I'll try anything at this point...

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